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Many parents want their children to be happy, but sometimes it can seem far
more challenging to accomplish. In today’s tech-focused, increasingly chaotic
world, it can be challenging to help children navigate the ups and downs of their
youth. Even if you have little to no control over what your child experiences
when they aren’t in your care, you may have a say over the environment they
spend most of their time in. Cultivating a positive, supportive environment for
your children is one step to helping them grow into healthy, well-adjusted
adults.

Why Your Peace Matters
Many parents and caregivers put themselves through challenges to make their
children happy. They may stay in relationships that don’t make them happy
because they think it’s best for their children. They might remain at a job that
drains them because they think it’s best for their children. Sacrificing your own
happiness may seem to benefit your child but reality can be different In many
cases, ensuring your own health and happiness can benefit your children more.

Children might not be as naïve as an adult might think. They pick up on
messages much faster than people might expect them to, which can affect how
they see you and themselves. For example, coming home frustrated and
snapping at your children might seem relatively minor. However, studies have
found that raising your voice with children can cause emotional harm.
When you are happy, it may show in how you parent your child. Although
mistakes can occur, and caregivers are often imperfect, there may be ways to
improve. Recognize the role your behavior, choice of words, and reactions can
have over your child’s sense of self. Children may internalize what they see in
their parents. Many experiences a child encounters are a “first” for them, so
“little” moments can leave a lasting
impact.

As a result, if you’re hoping to ensure your children grow up to be as happy and
prosperous as they can be, consider focusing on leading by example. Take care
of yourself, stand up for your happiness, and teach your children that they’re
worth doing the same. Studies also show that this strategy works, as young
children are likely to mimic their parents behaviors .